What do you do with a guy who doesnt know what he wants?

maybe he is one of the nice guys. maybe he doesn't want to rush things and just stay friends. if you are having with him yet and he is still treating you this good, he may want to make sure that this is going to work. give it some more time and then talk to him again. maybe another couple of months. he should be more able to tell you what he watns by then. if not, i would tell him that he needs to quit acting like you are his girlfriend and that the lovey-dovey stuff needs to stop.